Eleanor and Lucy at Didsbury House Hotel

Eleanor and Lucy at Didsbury House Hotel

Something you can never accuse Ellie and Lucy of is being ordinary, their vision of the perfect wedding was potentially problematic as they are very different and both wanted a ceremony that reflected their individual personalities, Ellie is calm, elegant and confident and Lucy is exuberant, boisterous and also quite shy. This in mind, they were struggling to see how to make it work for both of them. They found me on the Canal Street Website and by the time they contacted me neither were really holding out much hope that they could have a ceremony that they could be completely happy with.

A Sense of Completeness

When we met, both women were completely honest about their desire for a ceremony that would celebrate their different identities, and I could sense they were becoming despondent. As we chatted it was easy for me as an outsider to see how they actually blend well together and as our conversation turned to their relationship, I was getting a clear idea of how I was going to write their ceremony and I felt honoured that they had asked me to be a part of this most important rite of passage.

Embracing their Uniqueness

New Years’ Eve is the perfect wedding date as it is a time that you can celebrate new beginnings and make promises that will last not just for a year, but your whole lifetime through. The ceremony began to the tranquil and beautiful strains of ‘Everybody’s free, (to feel good)’ Lucy entered on the arm of her dad Rick, followed by Eleanor supported by her dad, Philip. As they stood in front of me, there was an almost tangible sense of calm as both women began to relax, their guests settled into the quietness that only comes with anticipation, this was no ordinary wedding. This super cool twosome broke with tradition by wearing black and gold, each of them had chosen wedding outfits that suited their personalities and they looked stunning.

Opening the Circle

Symbolic elements such as Unity Candles are a beautiful way to symbolise not only Eleanor and Lucy in their uniqueness but also of each of their families and friends,  honouring those past and present. Their mums Sarah and Madeleine, lit a taper candle each, followed by Lucy and Eleanor. The candles burned throughout the ceremony casting the warm glow of their love as they celebrated their relationship in front of the people who mean the most to them.

O Mistress Mine

There are many ways to include your family in the ceremony, another way is for them to read a poem or a reading, before I shared Eleanor and Lucy’s love story, Lucy’s sister Hanna, read Shakespear’s O Mistress Mine, which has deep significance in their relationship. Another way is to bring the dog, And why not, Eddie is part of the family, a team of three.

Lucy and Eleanor’s Love Story

When they met, Eleanor was in full throttle in life spending time between work, playing rugby, and in the pub socialising. Lucy was in party mode and not necessarily looking for a life partner, so when their worlds collided it was a big eye opener for both of them. They say that their first date was the world’s best first date ever, they met in London, and planned to go to the opening night of the Flat Iron restaurant and it didn’t take them long to work out that they had a lot in common and saw the world in the same way. Shortly after Eleanor had to go on holiday and you know how it is…., that thrill of sending texts and the anticipation of waiting for a reply, the long phone calls that you never want to end… something was definitely happening here…

Creating a ceremony by the telling of a story is a wonderful way to celebrate, and for families and friends to hear their story, (there is always something we don’t know) and just the same as in any other romance, they have worked hard on this relationship and themselves, it has been a time of learning and growth, they spend a lot of time together and miss each other when they are apart, the times of separation make them stronger, they are good at being a partnership but not needing to do everything together, their independence is never an issue and between them there is unquestioned trust and loyalty. Their family has grown with the introduction of their dog, the gorgeous Eddie, (and doesn’t he know it!) and rest of their story is their business.

Personal Vows and Heartfelt Promises

The women had written their own vows and took turns in making their promises to each other, hankies were in abundance! Their brothers Tom and Chris handed them their wedding rings and they sealed their vows with a simple and beautiful statement of their love and unity before signing the certificate that testified to the celebration of their relationship as ‘Satisfied’ by Hamilton played out in the background. 

The Kiss ~ Mwah!

What better way to seal your vows than with a kiss, after which Eleanor’s brother Chris read ‘Oh the places you’ll go’ by Dr Zeuss.

Congratulations! Today is your day. You’re off to Great Places! You’re off and away! You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself  any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the ones who’ll decide where to go’. 

Closing the Circle

They each pick up a taper candle and light the centre candle to show the world that they are indeed, one light burning brightly in the darkness. Their ceremony ended in a huge round of applause and by Lucy making the most of the confetti, not so shy now!

It was a beautifully unique ceremony, no doubt followed by a wondeful night of dancing and having fun (debauchery) as only Lucy and Eleanor can do, I’m sure their lives will be filled with love, laughter and lots cuddles from the lovely Eddie.

Thank you Lucy and Eleanor for a fantastic testimonial

Credit to the Team

Jenny and her fantastic team at Didsbury House Hotel as always made sure everything ran like clockwork, thank you!

A massive thank you Andy and Jo from Drew Findlay Photography for being great to work with and for the amazing image

You do meet some lovely people in this work xx

Liz Thompson is a Family Celebrant based in Manchester in the UK and working across the North West of England, Liz creates unique and personal ceremonies and services for life events such as Weddings, Civil Partnerships, Baby naming, Vow Renewal and many more. 

Julia and Ben at Albert Hall

Julia and Ben at Albert Hall

It’s not unusual these days for the groom to make initial contact to inquire about a wedding ceremony. So, when I received Ben’s email telling me that he and his girlfriend were having a Christmas wedding in Manchester and wanting to know more about my services I sent the usual information. Chatting over email he told me that his she is an actor and our meeting would depend on her schedule. No problem, I offer a very flexible service and prefer to work around people’s needs as much as I can.

First Impressions

So, on a gorgeously sunny day I tipped up on their doorstep and was greeted by Ben and his fiancé who I immediately recognised as Corrie star Julia Goulding who plays Shona Ramsey in the soap. To be greeted by one of Coronation Streets’ favourite actors was surreal, I knew Ben’s fiancé was an actor, but it didn’t occur to me that she would be so well known and in a soap opera that I had grown up with and love! I was acutely aware that this meeting was about them as a couple and, not wanting to overshadow that, I quickly supressed my excitement and the million and one questions that I had, to concentrated on them. What a great couple they are, it was a boiling hot day and Julia was wearing a simple shift dress with no make-up and looking cool and beautiful, they are a very beautiful couple, inside and out. I was made to feel very much at home. I still wonder about the impression I made, I’m sure they must have thought I was slightly bonkers as I was ‘all of a dither’ and it must have showed!

It’s not unusual these days for the groom to make initial contact to inquire about a wedding ceremony. So, when I received Ben’s email telling me that he and his girlfriend were having a Christmas wedding in Manchester and wanting to know more about my services I sent the usual information. Chatting over email he told me that his she is an actor and our meeting would depend on her schedule. No problem, I offer a very flexible service and prefer to work around people’s needs as much as I can.

First Impressions

So, on a gorgeously sunny day I tipped up on their doorstep and was greeted by Ben and his fiancé who I immediately recognised as Corrie star Julia Goulding who plays Shona Ramsey in the soap. To be greeted by one of Coronation Streets’ favourite actors was surreal, I knew Ben’s fiancé was an actor, but it didn’t occur to me that she would be so well known and in a soap opera that I had grown up with and love! I was acutely aware that this meeting was about them as a couple and, not wanting to overshadow that, I quickly supressed my excitement and the million and one questions that I had, to concentrated on them. What a great couple they are, it was a boiling hot day and Julia was wearing a simple shift dress with no make-up and looking cool and beautiful, they are a very beautiful couple, inside and out. I was made to feel very much at home. I still wonder about the impression I made, I’m sure they must have thought I was slightly bonkers as I was ‘all of a dither’ and it must have showed!

Love laid bare

Right from the beginning it was obvious that they both knew what they wanted and how they would like to celebrate their relationship, and as we sat and chatted, with the help of Marcel the cat, we began to plan the beginnings of a beautiful ceremony. Both were relaxed and happy and it was obvious they are very much in love, the way they look at each other speaks volumes. Family and friends are important to Julia and Ben and you could tell this by the important roles and prominent position given to them. Julia loves being on stage and always wanted to have her wedding ceremony on one, and Ben was happy as he would have loved to play on a stage that big when he was in a band in his younger years, mission accomplished as Manchester’s Albert Hall was the prefect venue and Christmas is one of my favourite times to have a wedding, it is just magical. The venue looked gorgeous and very seasonal with twinkly lights and their woodland themed decorations, Ben’s mum made the table dressings and it was just perfect, there was a lovely excited buzz about the place as we waited for Julia’s arrival. As Ben waited nervously for his bride to arrive their ushers and their friend Taron Egerton who was toastmaster for the wedding were chatting to the guests, making everyone feel welcome and relaxed. Ben was a mixture excited and emotional, his brothers and friends kept him calm… until he set eyes on Julia… and there were tears! It was such an emotionally charged moment that even I had to take a deep breath!

‘The soul comes joyful to the eye’ 

Their families were seated on the stage as the bridal party entered, Julia’s bridesmaids were chosen because they have all been with her at different stages of her life, school days, family times growing up and in different parts of her adult life, she says she couldn’t have got through any of those stages without them. Ben chose his best man and ushers for the same reason, they grew up, together, rebelled together, made friends and stayed friends, and stood by him when he needed them. Julia and Ben followed them in to the strains of the beautifully atmospheric Merry Christmas Mr Lawrence by Ryuichi Sakamoto, and in a break from tradition walked in together. Their joined hands, a clear and visible representation of their deep love and friendship. They were celebrating their union as they intended to carry on, side by side, holding hands and in the warm glow of each other’s love. Julia’s family are not traditional, and it wouldn’t have felt right for her to be given away; she was brought up to know that she is her own person and it wouldn’t have felt right for Ben either.

Ben looked gorgeous in a hand-made burgundy suit and Julia was breath-takingly beautiful in an ivory silk and satin gown, her veil was sheer and edged with silver sparkles, I had serious veil envy! Ben’s teary eyes and Julia’s big grin as she turned and looked at me spoke volumes; they were both just so happy to be having this wedding celebration.  The ceremony began surrounded by those closest to them, the guests, who included Julia’s Coronation Street co-stars Daniel Brocklebank, Sue Cleaver, Jack P Shepherd, Nicola Thorp, Lucy Fallon, Sair Khan and Tina O’Brien, were seated on the mezzanine which was decorated with Ivy and fairy lights with string lights hanging between the balconies. Following my welcoming speech Ben’s brother Josh opened by reading Alan Ginsberg’s ‘Song’ after which I shared Ben and Julia’s story.

You’re my cup of tea

When Julia was at RADA she was set the task of mentoring Ben’s brother Josh, over time they sparked up a friendship and Josh said ‘if you ever met my big brother you’d fall in love with him’ Julia’s response was ‘Give over’, well they did meet and there it was, that spark, two worlds had collided and Josh wasn’t wrong!They got to know each other over time and began dating, Julia planned the whole of their first date, she took him to the Tate Modern to see Picasso’s Weeping Woman, his favourite painting and then they went to see her favourite which is Proserpine by Dante Gabriel Rosetti, all very cultural… and then they went for a burger in a pub!  That was on the 13th Feb 2016.

Just over two years later Ben proposed on a snowy walk under a beautiful tree which was no mean feat as we were in the grip of the ‘beast from the east at the time, Julia squeaked a big fat, ‘Yes’! They were celebrating Ben’s 30th birthday so it came as a complete surprise to Julia. Clever planning on Ben’s part, three bottles of champagne later they told their families who were over the moon for the couple, they are so well matched. Julia is lively, vivacious and fiery, and Ben is calm and laid back, a beautiful soul. They are both quite funny and their banter is lovely, he says she is the most beautiful person ever and she agrees! She says he makes her a better person; and he is easy on the eye and of course, she is never wrong, so when he challenges her and he is right, it really annoys her. He loves their banter and the way they are open and honest with each other. They are two halves of a perfect whole and have so much fun together, every day brings them something to smile about… Following their story their friend Alex read WH Auden’s ‘Foxtrot’ which was fitting as Julia loves a nice brew. 

Vows and promises

It was time for the most meaningful part of the ceremony, where they made their vows which were traditional and beautiful in their simplicity, Adam and Nicola carried their rings over and there wasn’t a dry eye in the house as they sealed their bond with a kiss at which point the whole room just erupted and they were given the longest round of applause I have ever heard. Julia and Ben were emotional throughout the ceremony, it was a truly beautiful occasion, He says it was the best day of his life and, I hope, a day they will look back on fondly for the rest if their lives, for me, it was the beginning of a perfect Christmas and I’m still smiling at the memory of it.  

Credits to the team

The warm and welcoming team at Albert Hall who kept everything running smoothly, fabulour job, thank you.  

Photography by Joseph Scanlon

Ben’s suit by Ismail Kocak from Fix2fit

Julia’s gown by Zaynep Kartal

Julia’s Make up – by Sally Row – Poppy Nicholson and Laura Harrison for bridesmaids make up.

Julia’s Hair – by Jennifer Kennedy and The Hair Lounge, Norden for the bridesmaids hair.

 

Liz Thompson is a Family Celebrant based in Manchester in the UK and working across the North West of England, Liz creates unique and personal ceremonies and services for life events such as Weddings, Civil Partnerships, Baby naming, Vow Renewal and many more. 

Symbolic Ceremonies |by Liz Thompson

Symbolic Ceremonies |by Liz Thompson

Unity Sand Ceremony

In this image, the family are taking part in a Unity Sand Ceremony while saying their promises to each other, each colour and grain of sand can clearly be seen yet can never be separated. A beautiful representation of their family life.

Using symbolism in all types of ceremonies is becoming increasingly popular as couples begin to create their own family customs or resurrect old traditions. Different ways of thinking mean that more and more of you are not afraid to let your own unique style shine through.  Many of you are choosing Celebrant led ceremonies that blend something of your own character with tradition, celebrating those special moments in your own style by including symbolic elements that make your ceremony personal and memorable. Symbolism can be used to express your uniqueness, bringing something new and exciting to the ceremony or to pay homage to age old traditions.

Where can symbolism be included?

The easy answer to this is any ceremony or service at all! the choice is entirely yours. Perhaps you are holding a ceremony to name or welcome a new born child or children that you have adopted into your circle of family and friends?  Are you getting married? Renewing your vows? Blessing your union? Remembering lost loved ones? The list is endless. Whatever your reasons, including special elements that make your ceremony or service unique brings another dimension and richness to the celebration or service. You may have heard about the more popular symbolic ceremonies such as hand fasting, unity candles and sand ceremonies. In all honesty anything at all can be symbolic of your values, beliefs and traditions which opens up a whole world of opportunities to create a ceremony that is not only personal but is completely different to any other because it will be crafted around your unique personality or the personality of your child or lost loved one.

Want to know more?

I will be blogging regularly on many different types of ceremony so be sure to come back and have a look. You can also leave a comment or ask a question below and I will be more than happy to blog your requests.

Liz Thompson is a Family Celebrant based in Manchester in the UK and working across the North West of England, Liz creates unique and personal ceremonies and services for life events such as Weddings, Civil Partnerships, Baby naming, Vow Renewal and many more. 

Clare and Chris at The Devonshire Dome

Clare and Chris at The Devonshire Dome

When you know what you want…

What can I say about this bonkers pair? The first time I spoke to Clare she told me what she and Chris didn’t want… a ceremony that had been written for the masses which is why they chose to book me as their Celebrant to write and carry out their ceremony. They wanted a wedding ceremony that was a little bit traditional, a little bit quirky and with a lot of their personalities woven in, in short, a ceremony that was as unique and individual as the two of them, and that is what they got…

When we met it was clear that they were no ordinary couple. Both of them are a little bit crazy… and when their kind of crazy meets it’s best to fasten your seat belts and enjoy the ride!  After all, who turns up on a date carrying a big bunch of flowers… in a vase! or has their photo taken naked in a wheelbarrow?! They may not be the most outwardly romantic couple, in fact they are a bit ‘Jack and Vera’ loads of banter and both having to have the last word, but they know each other inside out and would never be without each other, they are each other’s greatest challenge and each other’s inspiration.

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Image by DSB Creative

Before we talk about the ceremony let me tell you about the wedding party, everyone looked stunning I don’t know what I loved more, the horse drawn carriage, the stunning bridesmaids or Chris and Clare’s daughters who were the cutest flower girls ever, in this image Clare has just arrived with her dad.

Chris looked amazing and completely pulled off the ‘tall dark and handsome’ look but of course Clare outshone them all, she’s beautiful anyway and was totally stunning, Clare’s wedding dress and the bridesmaids dresses (don’t you just love that colour, so dramatic) were designed by Mark Lesley and came from Dream Dress Bridal in Bredbury. Clare’s bouquet and flowers were from Red Floral Architecture, more about that later…

Building on words

When we were crafting their ceremony we communicated regularly, phone calls, text messages and emails swapping ideas, sending them words for sections of the ceremony and talking through what would work for them and finally we had a ceremony that suited them down to the ground.

“His proposal was so romantic, there was Chris on the doorstep on one knee, the street lights, lighting up the softly falling snow behind him”

Chris and Clare wrote their own vows which were heartfelt, touching and funny, just as you might expect, and perfect for them. I can still feel the crackle of excitement as their guests waited for Clare to arrive and the hush that fell as the music began and they realised this was the moment.

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Her Dad was so proud as they walked in together and Clare’s beaming smile just said it all. Chris was almost holding his breath as he waited, turning to see her looking radiant as she stood by his side.

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A candle, a bell and a box

When I told them about symbolic ceremonies they liked the idea so much that they decided that they would like to light a candle at the beginning to honour and remember their lost loved ones, whose flame burned throughout and symbolic of their presence during the ceremony.

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They had done the legal bit at the Registry office so decided not to exchange rings during their big day, instead they had a truce bell ceremony, they called it a time out bell ‘for those Jack and Vera moments’.

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Like a good champagne or a great whisky a great love will deepen and mature with age. Chris and Clare had captured their thoughts leading up to their wedding day in personal notes to each other. And they created their very own time capsule which contained a small bottle of Southern Comfort and a small Bottle of Champagne as well as their love letters which were sealed in individual envelopes. They have not seen what the other had written, and they will be opened on a date of their choosing. A lovely way to celebrate their relationship and to remember the feelings that they had whilst writing their notes. They can also reminisce about all of the wonderful memories they will have made over the years and of all of those yet to come.

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Compliments and contributions

When I was writing their ceremony I contacted some of their friends and family who gave me the low down on them, some great stories… but what shone out more than anything is that they are well loved, in their own right and as a couple, everyone agreed that they are the best thing that has ever happened to each other. Their friends also contributed by reading poems, a romantic one and a funny one, no surprise there!

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Ladies and Gentlemen please stand to applause the happy couple as they walk down the aisle together to begin their married life, it gives me great pleasure to present to you, MR & Mrs Brown… and they didn’t walk, they boogied… 

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As I was leaving Clare had spotted a vintage bus outside the venue and in true Clare and Chris style worked the opportunity for some off -the-cuff pictures.

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Suppliers on the day.

The Devonshire Dome is such a gorgeous venue, though I wouldn’t have expected anything less as Clare is a very well known Make Up Artist (Harry Jon MUA) and knows the best in the business, what really stood out were the huge floral displays that had been created by Red Floral Architecture, so striking, and the scent that they gave off was fabulous. And the images of course were from the lovely Damion of DSB Creative.

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Matt and his team had really pulled out all of the stops to create a beautiful display that was just breathtaking. The Videographer was Tom at Silk Wedding Videos and The photographer was the lovely Damian from DBS Creative who has kindly agreed to share his photo’s with you on this blog.

Kind Words

We just wanted to say a huge thank you to Liz, we met up and waffled our way through our life in a nutshell, sharing stories and quirks with Liz like we’d known her for years. Liz asked questions and we sat quiet, awkwardly answering and came away thinking ‘do we sound like we don’t know each other!?!’ Well, Liz must be a seriously good listener and our waffle paid off. Chris and I sat, both of us crying as we read the first draft of our story – in fact Chris couldn’t speak. It was fantastic for us. It had romance, comedy and the odd tear jerker in there, Perfect. She even gave us the courage to write our own vows and I’m so glad we did. There is no stress with Liz, she’s professional and effortless, taking everything in her stride, truly amazing at her job. Absolutely worth every penny, and the perfect Celebrant to share our day. 

Clare & Chris xxx

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Click on ~ Clare and Chris’s Video ~ for a little snapshot of the Ceremony from Silk Wedding Videos

 


About the Author

Liz Thompson

 
Liz Thompson is a Civil Celebrant based in Manchester in the UK and working across the North West of England, Liz creates unique and personal ceremonies and services for life events such as Weddings, Civil Partnerships, Baby naming, Vow Renewal and many more. Follow Liz on Facebook, Twitter, Google+, Pinterest and Instagram

Chloe and Paul at Broncoed Uchaf

A beautiful autumn wedding

Chloe and Paul’s wedding took place on a beautiful day at the beginning of October. I became involved when I was contacted by Patricia Harrison from Gift of a Wedding to tell me that Chloe had been told that her illness had progressed, Chloe’s Dad suggested that they get married which is when Gift of a Wedding stepped in to help. Gift of a wedding are a charity who gift wedding services to people who have a terminal or life-shortening illness. They do this by bringing together wedding professionals who are willing donate their services for free.

Chloe and Paul wanted an outdoor wedding and as many couples do they decided to do the legal bit in a quick signing at the Registry Office and have a celebrant for a personalised, more meaningful ceremony.

When Patricia asked me I was more than happy to offer my services for free because I support Gift of a Wedding and what they stand for but also because I believe that everyone should have the opportunity to have the wedding ceremony of their dreams, a ceremony that is personal and meaningful, whatever their circumstances.

“It was an honour and a pleasure to plan Chloe and Paul’s wedding. We’re delighted that we were able to fulfill their wedding dream and create some wonderful memories for their family and friends”

Patricia Harrison – Gift of a Wedding

Creating their ceremony

Celebrant Manchester| Personalised Weddings| Handfastings Manchester |Unity Ceremonies When I met with Chloe and Paul and their dogs Henry & Buddy for the first time in their lovely home, Chloe told me that she had always wanted a vintage/rustic wedding, we talked through their thoughts and wishes for their special day, I explained about symbolic ceremonies and the couple decided that they would like to have a candle lit at the beginning of their ceremony to honour and symbolise the presence of Chloe’s Mum Jan who had passed away in 2006.

Paul liked the sound of the handfasting ceremony. In the hand-fasting ritual, the couple’s hands are bound, to symbolise their lives being joined together. It is an old Celtic tradition and is where the saying tying the knot came from. The handfasting cord itself was symbolic I made it for them and sourced the Buchanan Tartan in homage to Paul’s Scottish heritage, and also wove in the pastel colours that Chloe wanted in her ceremony, pink for unconditional love and nurturing, and green for balance and harmony, I also wove through it a golden thread to symbolise the quality of their love for everyone who was sharing their day with them.

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A wonderful wedding under nature’s canopy

So the day dawned and I set out on the drive to Wales, it couldn’t have been more perfect, blue skies and such a beautiful setting, Broncoed Uchaf in the Flintshire countryside is stunning and the perfect setting for Chloe and Paul’s wedding ceremony, all of the suppliers worked so hard to make every detail of their day perfect for them.

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Lottie Elizabeth Photography and Claire Basiuk Photography

You could almost feel the crackle of excitement as the guests waited under a beautiful copper Beech Tree, Paul was very handsome (and a little nervous) standing shoulder to shoulder with his best man Chris as they waited for Chloe to arrive, and she made a stunning bride walking down the aisle of autumn leaves to the music ‘One Day like this’ with her Dad, following her gorgeous bridesmaids and Buddy and Henry too! Paul was so proud to be standing there with Chloe by his side.

the candle was lit, it’s warm glow a reminder of her Mother’s love, her dad gave her away and Chloe’s brother Richard opened the ceremony by reading a poem for them,


These I Can Promise

by Mark Twain

I cannot promise you a life of sunshine; 
I cannot promise you riches, wealth or gold; 
I cannot promise you an easy pathway 
That leads away from change or growing old. 


But I can promise all my heart’s devotion; 
A smile to chase away your tears of sorrow. 
A love that’s true and ever growing; 
A hand to hold in yours through each tomorrow.


The couple and their guests were touched and amused to hear their personal story after which, completely lost in each other they spoke their vows to one another and exchanged rings, time for another poem and then finally with their eyes locked, and hands linked, I bound their hands in a beautiful binding of love and total commitment.

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Lottie Elizabeth Photography and Claire Basiuk Photography

Congratulations!

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The guests cheered their congratulations as they walked back down the aisle as Mr & Mrs Tibbott, surrounded by the love of their family and friends, a truly lovely couple who will always hold a special place in my heart


I carry your heart with me (I carry it in)

by e.e. cummings

I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart)

I am never without it

(anywhere I go you go my dear; and whatever is done by only me  is your doing, my darling)
I fear no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet)

I want no world (for beautiful, you are my world, my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing, is you…

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky

of a tree called life;

which grows higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart

I carry your heart (I carry it in my heart)


Check out this video of their big day – by Barry Davies at creative Videos

Kind Words

Thank you so much again for everything, it was so beautiful and lots of people have said to me how much they enjoyed the actual ceremony, Chloe and Paul


The rest of the team who gave their time, skills, services & creativity

to make Chloe & Paul’s perfect wedding day are…

Gift of a Wedding

Lottie Elizabeth Photography

Claire Basiuk Photography

Broncoed Uchaf

Creative Video’s

The Jolly Good Vintage Company,

Cambridge Event Bars,

All Undercover Marquee Ltd,

Fodder in the Field,

Di Shackson Flowers,

Cheshire Cat Cake Company,

The Flower Room Monton,

Ultimate Hair ltd,

Lovelies Delights,

Lottie Elizabeth Photography,

Wirral Tool Hire Mold.

The Owain Glyndwr Inn

Music was by a group of musicians brought together by Amy Chalmers


About the Author


Liz Thompson is a Civil Celebrant based in Manchester in the UK and working across the North West of England, Liz creates unique and personal ceremonies and services for life events such as Weddings, Civil Partnerships, Baby naming, Vow Renewal and many more

You only get one chance to have your ceremony and as ours is not yet a regulated profession anyone can call themselves a Celebrant. Any professionally trained Celebrant will be more than happy for you to check that they are qualified to do the job.  I trained with The Fellowship of Professional Celebrants, see my About Liz page for more information.

Kate and Ryan’s English Rose Wedding at the A. J. Bell Stadium

Kate and Ryan’s English Rose Wedding at the A. J. Bell Stadium

A Family Affair

Kate and Ryan’s wedding was a beautiful celebration of young love with family and friends not only being there for them but also taking some key roles too.  Ryan nervously waited with his four best men, all of his brothers! In first came the flower girls, Ryan and Kate’s daughters and their Niece who looked beyond cute followed by Kate’s sister Emily who was Maid of Honour.  And Kate looked stunning as she entered with her Dad, wearing a beautiful flowing Grecian dress and carrying her bouquet of dusty pink roses that suited her complexion really well.

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Kate and Ryan decided on a traditional style ceremony with a few an added twists, Emily opened the ceremony by reading out the poem ‘On your wedding day’ and then Kate’s brother John lit a beautiful handmade candle hand made by Jo at Love Herbal to honour and remember Kate’s Granddad . It was very emotional for Kate and her family and lovely to be honour his memory by symbolically including him in their special day.

Kate and Ryan’s Story

The part of the ceremony that always really touches people is the couple’s story of how they came to be together and the journey that brings them to their wedding day. There are usually a few tears and some laughter thrown in for good measure.

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Ryan’s Brother read a poem called ‘I’ll be there’ about the more amusing side of married life and then it was time to make their vows. There are so many ways and combinations of vows and neither like public speaking so Kate and Ryan chose to have their vows mainly as questions from me for them to respond to. Their last two vows were beautiful and spoken to each other. Then it was time to exchange rings and sign the bespoke certificate which I had designed for them, it matched their copy of the ceremony which I bound in colours to match their theme.  Symbolic Ceremonies | Wedding Celebrant Manchester |Unity Ceremonies It was a lovely day and they made such a beautiful couple who loved their bespoke ceremony.

Everybody commented on how different and personal the ceremony was and it was very emotional.

It was nice to have her there on the day, rather than a registrar, because she knew us, our likes and dislikes and we knew her. I am so happy we had Liz perform our ceremony and we feel so lucky that we met her that day.


Footnote:

You only get one chance to have your ceremony and as ours is not yet a regulated profession anyone can call themselves a Celebrant. Any professionally trained Celebrant will be more than happy for you to check that they are qualified.  I trained with The Fellowship of Professional Celebrants, see my About Liz page for more information.


Liz Thompson is a Civil Celebrant based in Manchester in the UK and working across the North West of England, Liz creates unique and personal ceremonies and services for life events such as Weddings, Civil Partnerships, Baby naming, Vow Renewal and many more. Follow Liz on Facebook, Twitter, Google+, Pinterest and Instagram
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